Gay Dating on the Internet

The Internet has revolutionized countless aspects of our daily lives. Invisible, marginalized communities like lesbians, gays, bisexuals, transgenders, and similar minorities have benefited immensely from the ability to reach out and find support from others in the community even when they themselves might not personally know others open about their sexuality.

So it's no surprise that online dating services would also be popular, particularly among gays. In 2002, millions of people around the world joined online dating services. For many gays and lesbians, online personal ad sites represent an easier way of meeting people than bars and nightclubs, particularly in smaller communities with fewer opportunities for people to be out and visible. It's hard to know whether that cute guy at the cafe or in your class is gay or not, much less available and interested in dating - but with an online personal ad, it's quick and easy to search for guys seeking other guys. 

Intense Gay Connections has provided some resources about some of the best places for gay men to seek other guys for the gamut of dating options ranging from quick encounters to long-term romances.  We have also provided some articles offering advice about how to craft personal ads in ways that will be catchy and interesting for other gay men.